What is love when love unrequisited is found and the heart is lost?
Q. In general ideas, most often than not, love is associated with the sense of an emotional rebirth. This general feeling of mutuality often ends and ties people to bondage upon others whom in the end they will leave, either by human reasons or by moral instability. What I am here to ask is, when love is unfulfilled, where does the heart go from there?
Asked by trezchase - Fri May 11 09:32:11 2007 - Philosophy - 4 Answers - 2 Comments

A. "Great Expectations" wasn't what i had expected (yaaawn...) But the point it made about the heart is VERY applicable to this discussion, thanx Timaeus... I like the answer above that broke down love into 3 types... There are probably more types of love out there too.. (i.e. cats do make good pets).. But i think the common theme here is this: All forms of love humans can experience come to an end for us...ONLY because we are like birds in this life, resting momentarily together on a tree branch before taking flight and moving on... Our free will, worldly positionality, our deaths, and countless other things will at one time or another seperate us from the people and love we create in relationships... However... LOVE will continue… [cont.]
Answered by The cat - Fri May 11 11:57:01 2007

What is love meaning the difference between loving your mom and being in love with ur gf or fiance?
Q. you love ur mom you in love with ur gf or fiance what is the difference?
Asked by Meagan Blink - Sun Sep 7 09:03:44 2008 - Other - Family & Relationships - 11 Answers - 9 Comments

A. Love for your mother is that of a nurturing person, who cares for you. Love for a spouse is decidedly more sexual and a differing caliber of love
Answered by stephen k - Sun Sep 7 09:09:30 2008

LOv E!!!?
Q. Does love really make you do unexpected things? If so like what?
Asked by NeLsOnZ WiFeY - Tue Apr 18 16:35:11 2006 - Other - Family & Relationships - 10 Answers - 3 Comments

A. i say yes love does make you do unexpected things because your not really thinking wen your with the person u really have feelings for maybe ur afraid that if u don't do something they want you to do... they will break up with you or make you feel pressured and love also makes you do stuff not sexually but daring ...like just say you were going out with this person and someone asked you to do something like steal but you know you shouldn't but the person you really like says to do it you don't want the feeling of putting them down or being scared to do it so you steal just because the person you like is with you.. i can sort of relate but its kind of stupid tho... this guy that i liked wanted me to go up on this brick wall and walk on… [cont.]
Answered by shelli - Tue Apr 18 16:59:49 2006

Whats the difference between true love and just love?
Q. Someone once told me that you love many but only love one person for the rest of your life. And thats your true love. I do believe this cause I experience it everyday. So true love ??? Explain fully what it means to you and what it means to have a true love?
Asked by sweetiepie - Fri May 6 02:39:39 2011 - Singles & Dating - 2 Answers - Comments

A. There are plenty of people I love but there's only one I'm hole heartily willing to take a bulite for. The person I will take a bulite threw my skull for is the one I could call true love.
Answered by Daniel - Fri May 6 02:46:24 2011

How should we love ourselves, to love others the right way?
Q. One can not love others without loving yourself is well known. But the term "love" is ambivalent. So how do you love to love others?
Asked by KIRIKOU YAKARI frere de AANG - Sat Jul 10 07:43:11 2010 - Religion & Spirituality - 2 Answers - Comments

A. You can not give away something you don't have. You are a holy child of the Universe and entitled to Divine love because of who and what you are. When you can accept that love of yourself for yourself, you can broadcast it to all others. That way you are sending Love the way a TV station sends it's signal that turns into a picture when it hits a [tv] Receiver.
Answered by billy batson - Tue Jul 13 22:55:38 2010

LOVe???
Q. does it really desreve what poeple do for it?why do the secrify by all they have to show it?LOVE is suffering,missing,tears,?y y y y??? :(((
Asked by Adham 1910 - Fri Aug 31 09:00:20 2007 - Philosophy - 18 Answers - 1 Comments

A. . Oh my God !!! "Lonely among the crowd" ... noo ... nooo ... nooo please ... return back ... Our "Love Seeker" ... with his romance and beautiful smile... My dear ... what has happened ?? aren't we friends ? It really breaks my heart to see you like that ... :'-( I'll tell you what I truely feel : Love is the sweetest feeling in the whole world ... but one should be careful before getting too involved ... in such a sweet feeling ... you know why ? coz ... what's really sweet about love is being happy ... and feeling complete ... with a soulmate ... but ... my advice is ... to make sure of your so-called lover's feelings ... in order not to get hurt ... my dear. Cheer up,please :-) I really can't see you like that ...… [cont.]
Answered by ~ Noha ~ - Fri Aug 31 10:16:56 2007

What do you love about your favorite major league baseball team?
Q. Willie Randolf was marvelling last night about the amazing catch that Carlos Beltran made in center field in the 9th inning to save the game against the Astros. He said, "It was an unbelievable catch. He just went all out, sacrificed his body and that's why he's one of the great players in the game. It's what I love about my team - they go all-out." It's what I love about the Mets too. They go all out and they never give up. What do you love about your favorite team?
Asked by Bingo's Mommy - Sun Sep 3 07:54:40 2006 - Baseball - 14 Answers - 1 Comments

A. Hello Ms. Leiter! I cant say enough about that catch that Beltran made in the 9th inning last night. I jumped off my couch and spilled my iced tea all over the place...thankfully my dogs licked most of it up lets go mets!
Answered by J-Far - Sun Sep 3 10:36:22 2006

What is more important to love your family or romantic love?
Q. I cant decide which one is more important and i would love to hear from everyone. What do you think it's more important, to love your family or romantic love?
Asked by Jason Barros - Tue Mar 30 15:42:40 2010 - Singles & Dating - 4 Answers - Comments

A. If all the relationships are healthy ones, a certain point, after a time, your romantic love is family and of equal importance.
Answered by boredatwork - Tue Mar 30 15:47:28 2010

What category of the five love languages does reading fit into?
Q. Our dad read to us all when we were little. It was the best! All of us love to read and all my life I have loved to read to people - anyone - if I felt "warm" towards them - kids, elderly, friends, anyone. If they didn't want to be read to I could hardly believe it. Now I think it is one of my love languages. To listen to my husband or kids read out loud to me is interpreted as "I love you." Any insight? Don't know what category this goes in either.
Asked by Nani - Mon May 23 15:38:21 2011 - Psychology - 1 Answers - Comments

A. sounds like he was spending quality time with you and you associate that with reading a book. When you hear your loved ones reading it reminds you of the time with your father as well as the act of reading aloud can bring closeness. I believe your love language is spending quality time.
Answered by kim - Mon May 23 17:28:12 2011

What do love most about driving fast in the rain?
Q. From huge puddles to mountain roads,got some new Falken tires,so I got's to love driving fast in the rain. What do you love most about it?
Asked by James B - Wed Dec 17 12:49:29 2008 - Commuting - 9 Answers - 1 Comments

A. i love dead idiots on the side of the road. one less to deal with.
Answered by airgun_target - Wed Dec 17 14:33:13 2008

What is the difference between being in love and romantically loving someone?
Q. Like I know you can love anyone, like friends an everyone and people saying being in love with someone and loving them are two different things. But what about romantically in love and being in love, what's the difference if there is one?
Asked by Shelby - Sat Jun 6 19:30:50 2009 - Singles & Dating - 3 Answers - Comments

A. Love is a light that allows people to see things that are not seen by others. Romantic love is a deep emotional, sexual and spiritual recognition and regard for the value of another person and relationship. Romantic love can generate many powerful feelings. It can provide a profound ecstasy, and a deep suffering when frustrated. To some people, romantic love is irrational. Romantic love can seem like an emotional storm. Someone we love enters the room. Our eyes and heart light up. We look at this person. We feel a growing feeling of joy within us. We reach out and touch their hand. We feel happy and fulfilled. I believe we all have a profound need to find things in the world we care about and feel inspired by.From the moment of birth we… [cont.]
Answered by krupa4all - Sun Jun 7 10:43:50 2009

How has your love for others made you a better person?
Q. Some people can pick and choose who they love; they seek a balance or a rewarding experience for both paties. Some people appear to express agape; they try to love everybody in some way, though that's often impossible. Some people are narcissistic; they cannot love anyone as much as they love themselves. In what way(s) has your love for others (or lack of it) given you a sense of self-worth?
Asked by gOING gREY gAGGLES - Wed Nov 4 22:44:09 2009 - Valentine's Day - 2 Answers - Comments

A. My love for others has helped me get through life. I can't hate people for some reason. I just wasn't made to hate them I guess. It helps me get through life letting people know I love them and care. I don't think it is impossible to love everyone in some way. I'm pretty sure I can love everyone in some way. My dad which has never been there for him I love him more than ever, because I found out that my mother kept me away from him which I love her as well, because she raised me right. She has taken my daughter from me, but I still love her. Okay if you knew every person in my life you could ask me why I love every one of them.
Answered by J*LUVZ*A - Fri Nov 6 01:33:10 2009

love...?
Q. how do you find it? ...ive heard that if you stop looking, love comes to you. ive also heard that love comes when you least expect it. what are your experiences with these situations?
Asked by Rumplestiltskin. - Mon May 31 14:29:22 2010 - Singles & Dating - 9 Answers - 3 Comments

A. Love is the most blessed thing on god's green earth next to the birth of children. It's surrounded by warm gooey feelings and the sudden urge to dance. It does come when you least expect it and dont find it cause it will find you instead. My experiences with it have been rather crazy but honest.
Answered by Crazy Chubby Lady Luv Eastenders 4 Life - Mon May 31 21:03:46 2010

What's the difference between loving someone and being in love with somone?
Q. OK...If I love someone who I am also intimate with--does that make me IN love?...I just do not understand what "being in love" really means.
Asked by CuriousAndParanoid - Mon Oct 20 23:56:25 2008 - Singles & Dating - 6 Answers - Comments

A. hello and i am the Love Doctor. I am here to help you answer your question and if you have any questions abut love, everhbody can email me at Ok, let's see, if you really love someone and you feel very intimate with the person, it is just a sudden spark that you feel, it does not really mean that you are in love. When you truly love someone, you will put aside all defects and on the person, body odour, looks, size etc. You will feel your heart thumping really very fast and you feel shy talking to the person until you know the person also loves/likes you. When you are intimate with that person, it would most probably mean that you are in probationary love, which means you are putting your heart to a test, to see if the two of you match,… [cont.]
Answered by LoveDoctor - Thu Oct 23 03:08:56 2008

How can you love yourself without being narcissistic?
Q. I'm not sure it really makes sense to love yourself. I understand love more as something you have for other people. I can say I like myself well enough, but self-love sounds like egotism to me, and that's in direct opposition to love(as I see it anyway). It also seems to require some degree of objectivity to be legitimate, and you can't really have that seeing as there's an inherent bias. You don't need to love yourself to know that you are worthy of love, do you?
Asked by Craig T - Fri Feb 19 15:26:54 2010 - Philosophy - 6 Answers - Comments

A. Well, I guess it's about having respect and appreciation for yourself body, mind, and soul. That isn't narcissistic, as long as you offer the same things to others and don't exalt your self-worth because of having that self-respect and appreciation. I'm not sure about the second question.
Answered by Mr. Fox - Fri Feb 19 15:36:03 2010

Lov E???
Q. i know 2 girls that like me how do i tell one of them that i like the other
Asked by a guy with a problem & an answer - Sat Mar 22 21:15:51 2008 - Singles & Dating - 5 Answers - 3 Comments

A. Just get it out there and be honest, but not too brutally! I am sure that in the long run she will be grateful that you were honest with her. Good luck!
Answered by Curly lox - Sat Mar 22 21:21:38 2008

What is the difference between romantic love and friendship or familial love?
Q. If someone says "I love all my friends", or says to their friend "I love you" or "Love Ya", is it not the same love as romantic love when you tell your boyfriend or girlfriend "I love you". I dont think there's a difference, or is there?. Serious answers only pleeez.
Asked by jayy - Sun Nov 22 03:05:55 2009 - Other - Family & Relationships - 12 Answers - 1 Comments

A. Well it is the same word, but the meaning with every person is different, so its like if you say (i love you, love ya) to someone in your close family, you don't mean it as a romantic love, its a combination of many feelings inside you, (trust, secure...) and also to your friends, you love to go out with them, spend time with them, share things with them... but still its not romantic love, its still a combination of feeling very near to love (happiness, joyful feelings...) but when you tell it to you boyfriend or husband, its different, its still a combination but different, you feel (secure, Passion, happiness, trust...) all these makes the word i love you different. hope that helped
Answered by Mommy to a princess called Tala Bara'a :) - Sun Nov 22 03:19:12 2009

How to love our loved ones by putting a control over our expectations?
Q. I have observed that when we love someone, whether our parents, our children or someone else, we start expecting something or the other from those. Can't these expectations be kept aside? If yes, then how?
Asked by Kajoyzi - Tue Jan 20 07:51:35 2009 - Other - Family & Relationships - 2 Answers - Comments

A. When we care about someone, we want their best interests at heart. So we expect more from them than from strangers. I don't think you can put expectations aside. You can only be aware of your expectations and realize that your expectations may be too high and may place undue stress on your loved ones. It seems like you're doing that already. Try to encourage rather than judge/criticize your loved ones negatively. Good luck!
Answered by ami - Tue Jan 20 08:10:19 2009

What is love and is domestic violence a way of showing love for your partner?
Q. This is a general question as I am curious as to how fathers can beat up the mother for years, purport to love the children and think that this is normal behaviour. The police see family matters as something entirely different to violence between strangers. Surely, violence is violence and those who beat up another person should be sent to prison.
Asked by helene123 - Thu Sep 28 17:27:38 2006 - Gender & Women's Studies - 45 Answers - 1 Comments

A. .Domestic violence isnt about love, but about power and bullying over another person. The person who does the beating has low self esteem and feels the need to suppress the other person who they fear will ultimately leave them in the end. The police DO NOT treat domestic violence differently. In fact, it is took very seriously. The tide is changing. In the UK, the police actually have a duty to make a 72hr turn around on domestic violence crime reports. The problem the police face is that often the victim will withdraw the complaint, refuse to go to court and go back to their abusive partner.
Answered by PEP - Thu Sep 28 17:29:48 2006

What is the difference between love and infatuation?
Q. How to you know if your IN love with someone or just love being with someone? If your in love or infatuated? If its love or lust? Or your just with someone for the 'comfort' of being with someone?
Asked by Rebecca - Mon Nov 15 04:01:11 2010 - Psychology - 6 Answers - Comments

A. LOVE & infatuation sound almost similar & are similar in many ways but LOVE for someone lasts longer than infatuation. You feel "Lust" towards someone when you are sexually attracted towards the person & when look at the person, the only thing that comes to your mind is sex. Its just a momentary attraction & would soon wipe away. "Love" is when you don't care much about their 'pros & cons' & love them the way they are. You are happy when they are around you & you want to spend your entire life with the person. You are comfortable in sharing your feelings with the person & are willing to help & support the person in their needs. You would understand the difference with experience. Take… [cont.]
Answered by - Mon Nov 15 04:48:06 2010